Mio feeling at home on the mountain.Mio has turned out to be a profoundly positive influence on the herd, primarily among the two would be bullies, Valeroso and Griton. In Valeroso's case, he no longer has anyone that he can push around. Mio actually likes Valeroso but when he gets aggressive, Mio has no problem putting him in his place quickly and decisively. The result is that with no horse to pump up his ego, Valeroso is becoming increasingly social, even with us. There are very few skirmishes anymore and not a single time out for Valeroso in weeks. Several weeks ago it looked like Valeroso might be colicking and even though he hadn't had a halter on in about two years, with little effort Mike and I were able to halter him and check him over. Fortunately he wasn't colicking but his sudden lack of aggression and increased security with us after living here for four years is amazing.
Mio offers friendly grooming to Valeroso but does not tolerate aggression from him.For Griton's part, herd-wise Mio has figured out that making friends with him is his best course. It has been fascinating to watch Mio slowly courting Griton by following him to the water trough, standing increasingly closer during nap and drinking times and holding his ground at the hay bags. Even though I haven’t been able to get a photo yet, Mio has even been spotted standing right next to Griton and swishing flies. And something else amazing...sharing hay! No one ever shares hay with Griton because he is such a butthead about it.
Mio goes to water with Griton and slowly moves into his space.The result is a much happier and mellower Griton who isn't harassing anyone or chasing them away from their food. It's just possible that he is learning to expand his sphere of friendship to include Mio instead of Corazon and only Corazon. The peace in the Star's Rest Band is expanding...can you feel it?
Mio moving his way into the Inner Circle of Corazon, Llego and Griton.I also recently promised to talk about how we teach our horses to keep their feet still unless asked to move them. As it always seems, there aren't any simple answers to questions like those since so much of what we do is intuitive and instinctual. This behavior has been developed in me since I was a kid, running wild with the horses in Arkansas. We don't relate to our horses as 'bosses' or as being 'dominant'. We relate to them as trustworthy leaders and peaceful herd members. Just like they keep peace among their own ranks by sending away aggressors, we send them away when they get bossy or crowd us. When all is calm and body space is respected, we stay together. If we tell them a perceived danger is safe, they believe us because we have never lied to them.
Putting in our arena involved bringing backhoes, bulldozers and dump trucks in with formerly wild horses. I didn't want them to be frightened, so spent time touching each of the pieces of heavy equipment so that the horses would understand they were safe.We listen to them and allow them to teach us as much as we teach them. We share affection and company and that happens all day long, not just at feeding times or when it's time for them to work. A happy social life is fundamental to a horse herd and we make the time to spend with them with no other agenda other than sharing company. As a result, our horses want to be with us, are happy to see us, and eager to find out what new thing we might do together.
Valeroso gets up close and personal with a backhoe after he was assured by me that it was safe.On a more practical and explainable level, we use something similar to clicker training to teach each horse the basics of ground manners. I wrote a whole series about this at Life at Star's Rest and you can read those posts by selecting the 'clicker training' label in the right side bar at that blog. The difference from what most people do with clicker training is that we only use a food reward in the very beginning as a way to explain the concept of request and response to the horse, after that it is only voice and touch reward.
You can tell by Griton's expression how much he does not enjoy fly wipe, yet he stands without moving his feet because I have asked him to.If there is a situation where we don't want a horse to move his feet, we give a previously taught request of 'stand' using a voice and hand cue. If he moves out of position, we don't punish him; we just move him back into position, wait a moment, give the hand and voice cue again and go on about what we were doing. When he holds the position, we praise and touch with a consistent word and stroke to reinforce that he is indeed doing what is wanted. Our horses want to please and cooperate so it doesn't take much to get the response we want.


Mio at peace in his world.
Mio is a case of a horse that was over round penned and as a result has some behaviors that are innocent but actually dangerous. He is one who was taught to ‘face up’ and ‘hook up’ no matter what. In the beginning, he was very anxious about having me on his left side and would constantly turn to keep facing me with his head at my shoulder. Or if I was working at his hind quarters, he would back up to try to keep his head in the position he thought was wanted of him.
Besides being a frustrating issue, this was also a potentially dangerous one. As an example, while he was still wearing a blanket in the spring snow, I noticed that one of his blanket straps had come unfastened and I went up the grade to refasten it. He was on a narrow trail that fortunately didn’t have a drop off and each time I tried to move past him to catch the strap, he backed up in an effort to keep his head even with me. Had this been a trail riding situation where there was a steep drop off on one side or the other, his backing up would have put us both in possibly extreme danger.
Besides being a frustrating issue, this was also a potentially dangerous one. As an example, while he was still wearing a blanket in the spring snow, I noticed that one of his blanket straps had come unfastened and I went up the grade to refasten it. He was on a narrow trail that fortunately didn’t have a drop off and each time I tried to move past him to catch the strap, he backed up in an effort to keep his head even with me. Had this been a trail riding situation where there was a steep drop off on one side or the other, his backing up would have put us both in possibly extreme danger.
Mio recently got a nail in his foot and I knew our lessons on not moving his feet until asked had been successful when he stood quietly the entire time his foot was soaking whether I was standing near or not.When I first began working with Mio to teach him to not move his feet unless asked, he was very anxious about it. He has such a strong desire to please and ‘facing up’ was so deeply ingrained in him that he felt not moving was disobeying. Once he understood that all in the world I was asking him to do was keep his feet still and relax, he became a big believer in doing nothing! He was trimmed by our barefoot trimmer two days ago and the trimmer was amazed at what a different horse Mio is now as he stood quietly and almost went to sleep during the trim process.
Mike spending social time with Griton, Corazon and Llego.Your horse needs just as much social time with you as work time. Being willing to listen to your horse and learn from him is as important to him as training is to you. Developing a relationship of cooperation instead of conflict will create a place of trust and safety for your horse who will then believe you when you say there isn’t anything to fear and who will eagerly work to please you.














































